Be the change you would like to see in the world

– Mahatma Gandhi

How I know

People like to categorize, attach labels to groups with common ideas and believes. I guess it helps us to feel connected to what sets the group apart. Labels helped me to figure what I have been feeling all my life.

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La Traviata

In 2018, about half a year after coming out, I found myself often in chatrooms fro crossdressers and transgenders. It was wonderful to be able to connect with other people on the same journey. One conversation let me to go out to the Opera in Hamburg.

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Biology of gender

A couple of days ago I posted about not getting stuck for yourself at the why, if that is pushing you down. I am thankful however, some very bright people dedicate their lives to figure out how our body works.

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Inhale confidence.

Exhale doubt.

– unknown

Perfect nails

Since I cannot express my feminine side a lot I have been trying different ways to have beautifully polished and styled nails. The downside of many options is that they leave traces. Either you have a hard time removing nail polish or glue if you have applied gel nails.

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It is ok

Today I woke up, feeling a bit emotional. I went to bed late yesterday, but felt good at that time. Somehow something shifted over night and things seem to touch me deeply today.

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Las Vegas

After yesterday’s post on the talk from CiCi, I had to think about my first visit to Las Vegas as Liv. For my work I have been to visit Las Vegas a couple of times before. Around a year after my coming out, I had another opportunity to go there. This time I made sure to pack some dresses, my makeup and heels.

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The hardest thing

My sweet and dear friend Sherri, who is always here for me and helps me so much in my journey, some time ago shared this video with me. A beautiful inspirational talk by CiCi.

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